advice for the women who have been cheated, hurt, used, deceived by men: women dont waste another tear, a minute thinking about the guy who you fell in love or dated, most men do not have hearts and feel nothing after dumping you they will find someone else so why waste your precious life worrying, thinking about them, think about how wisely you could have used all the time you kept thinking about why he left you, why you broke up, why he did not love you etc they are not worth it if they happily move on why do you cause yourself unecessary pain forget them and enjoy life and dont take anymore pain :o)