I have a name, I really do. I was born with this name. It is Rebecca and not sweetie, babe, baby, or hot stuff. Respect for who I am is shown by using my name. You come on to me or try to pick me up by saying Hey Baby and I think, I just another person you are trying to win over. If you really, truly interested. I would hear, Hello Rebecca. I am?, How are you and can I please get to know you. This shows me I have some value and importance to whom I will be speaking to.