I have a name, I really do. I was born with this name. It is Rebecca and not sweetie, babe, baby, or hot stuff. Respect for who I am is shown by using my name. You come on to me or try to pick me up by saying Hey Baby and I think, I just another person you are trying to win over. If you really, truly interested. I would hear, Hello Rebecca. I am?, How are you and can I please get to know you. This shows me I have some value and importance to whom I will be speaking to.

Maybe it is not etiquette with today. Maybe we as women allow men to call us chicks, B*****es, yo mama and more. But etiquette, politeness, honor and respect is important to win someone heart. Otherwise what will you call me later in the relationship?

Rebecca! U r right.

Hello dear Rebecca !, nice to meet you , how are you?. Y ou must know that I have so much respects for you.

I agree with you Rebecca...I am wondering why men use such terms of endearment like baby, dear, darling, honey casually to women they hardly knew. I believe that these words must be use only to address someone you are familiar with and care about. Its more appropriate to call women by their first names specially when you are in that getting to know stage.

Hi Amy.......

Anna, always difficult to get the good things........

i do have a nswer to why men call woman baby and all that either CRAP it is because they dont get caught calling you someone elses name they are covering there hinnie... my favorite thing i just heard is when men give u there cologne to wear think its cute aaawwe no so if they are having an affair u are wearing whet they are so they still smell like them not the other woman hahaha a friend told me that ... could u see a woman doing that Not so there a few things to think about ladies

Not necessarily true as it is a term of endearment. It is not meant to be demeaning or disrespectful most of the time.

its not always disrespectable provided the word used for addressing is not outright insulting.

hi Rbecca :)

it's true, call the name of giving our parents. parents who have given birth and raised us.

iThe sweetest music to hear our name

uphold the value of civility, mutual respect and honor. no man is born perfect. but glory is not judged by the physical but of noble personal

Good Day Rebecca , I think you are perfectely right, it`s a great today`s problem !! People want to get close to quick *** This is a part of luck of education,... some how,... but it could be not all the time. You put this question, that I wonted to put it on the notice board to. So the problem is not only yours . Is a kind of trendy !! What count is easy enjoyment and, pleasure . So where is the sense of( LOVE AND RESPECT ??) Dont forget that the world is getting more and more in this direction. We would like to find values of life... but... ! So my question now is: Wy ??? *** FOR MANY PEOPLE IS MORE EASY TO JUMP IN BED WITH A PERSON WHICH THEY DON`T KNOW ??? *** But is very difficult for them to start a nice and serious conversation to try to know each , BEFORE GETTING SO CLOSE INTIMETELY RELATED ???